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Mission: To educate and heal parents who are tortured in family court.
Values: To create learning materials for parents with wording so everyone can understand. Encourage others to make changes and be strong. To help other coaches so they can be ahead of the game and reach more parents
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How Difficult Is It to Represent Yourself in Family Court?
Many parents feel intimidated by the thought of representing themselves in family court, often influenced by the saying, "Only fools represent themselves." As a mother of three, I found myself in a situation where my attorney wasn't resolving issues, and I had no choice but to represent myself.
At first, I was frustrated because drafting motions took away valuable time with my children and time for myself. However, over time, I found ways to streamline the process. I created templates for each motion, which made it quicker to write them. I also wrote on the top of each document where each copy needed to be sent, keeping everything organized. Using address labels made mailing motions easier, and color coding laws, subjects, and other relevant information helped me quickly locate everything I needed during hearings.
If you are financially struggling, you may be eligible for a fee waiver.
If you're receiving government assistance, you can ask the court to waive your fees by filing a fee waiver request. This saved me $700 when I filed two appeals with the Court of Appeals.
You can learn from other people's cases.
While preparing my appeal, I reviewed other cases that were going through the appeals process. I borrowed helpful parts from those cases that applied to mine, which gave me a better understanding of how to present my case.
Representing myself has had unexpected benefits.
In other situations, such as a dispute with my apartment complex, I filed a notice to sue, and they backed down. When businesses realize you're familiar with the law, they tend to avoid going to court.
In the end, my former spouse was awarded custody.
Through my research, I discovered that the Guardian ad Litem (GAL) in my case was married to a banker whose firm represented my ex’s divorce lawyer. I was never going to win with that kind of conflict of interest, so in hindsight, I'm glad I stopped using an attorney.
Over time, the process became easier.
There was a moment when I thought, “I can’t believe how easy this is now.” At the start, I didn’t even have a college degree, but I managed to navigate the system. If I can do this, so can you!
To help others get started, I’ve created an affordable program for those interested in representing themselves as pro se litigants. If you're unsure how to begin, click the link for more information.
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